Most people look at me like I’m out of my fucking mind when I say this but, I do not have promiscuous sex. Whenever I start “talking” to a girl, the sexual partners question always comes up and when I tell them they are usually in shock. Some girls have even said it’s intimidating that I have had so few sexual partners. But, Some girls see it as a game, they want to see if they can make me give in and just have sex. Why is it intimidating or shocking that I don’t sleep around? I just don’t get it.
Not having promiscuous sex isn’t a result of me being insecure with myself either; because, I really like my body and what not. I’ve never had a bad sexual experience or had any complaints from the girls that I have slept with (dated) or anything like that. And I am by NO means religious or believe that sex is wrong before marriage or any of that stupid bullshit. It’s just sex is a big deal for me, as I think it should be. In promiscuous sex someone is always being used, and I’m not the kind of person who uses anyone, nor am I the kind of person that is okay with being used. And as corny and stupid as it may sound, I think sex should “mean something” or at least the person you’re having sex with should mean something to you. People have promiscuous sex like it’s nothing all of the time and wonder why they caught something or why someone won’t call them back. It’s because you got used, and that feeling is awful. Just because I think a girl is really cute doesn’t mean I want to fuck her, or even if I did, I would get to know her first.
Promiscuous sex, it’s just not my style. I seem to be a dying breed these days, but that’s okay. I mean if you want me, work for it, get to know me for me. It’ll be worth it.
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lopezdispenser said:
yo- i’m the same way buddy. everyone is shocked how long it’s been… but if i’m not into someone for a long term thing, i don’t want to have sex with them
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